I just hesitated, fussed, and flustered before hitting Enter on a comment telling a total stranger, “love you.” Never again. I mean it, stranger struggling with identity questions and whether you are “allowed” to grieve at the same level as your LGBT loved ones because your current relationship reads straight. I love you. I love that you care, and I love the good done in the world by the fact that we all care. All my best to you, forever.